Rites and protocol

Wimbum marriage negotiations, step by step

The order of events from the first knock to the traditional ceremony, with what each side is expected to bring.

What this sheet covers

  • The knocking: who goes, and who must not
  • What the list actually means and how it is discussed
  • The role of the girl's aunts, which surprises people
  • When the marriage is considered done

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